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Work, Gratitude, and the Problem of the Current Second

I’m late to my very own social gathering, however April 1, 2020 marked twelve years since I stop my job as a lawyer to journey the world.

By now you guys know the drill: every year I wrote an annual replace publish for April 1st, about my way of thinking and the state of my enterprise. I’d often even have a get along with buddies to have a good time, wherever I used to be. In Saigon, it was a celebration with bun cha and rice vodka. In Oaxaca, it was mezcal and quesadillas.

This 12 months, the date fell in the course of the lengthy trek again to Montreal from Florida. I used to be attempting to maneuver shortly sufficient to get house safely, however sluggish sufficient to not exacerbate my spinal CSF leak.

Whereas I used to be technically on the highway on April 1st, the date concerned rather less celebration and a bit extra pandemic than traditional.

Since immediately is my forty first birthday, I believed I might use the event to try this annual write-up.

Right here’s a publish about what’s happening, and a few of what comes subsequent.

12 Years of Authorized Nomads

Well being clever, my leak is ongoing. Different continual points are ongoing.

Nonetheless, I’m right here immediately, alive, feeling liked, looking for gratitude for what I can and remind myself that human connection is a part of what sees us by way of.

With elevated acceptance of my day-to-day actuality got here a way of elevated dissonance after I checked out Authorized Nomads. That smiling individual on a motorcycle on my entrance web page is not me. Telling tales by way of meals is not me. These are a part of me, certain, and I’m happy with no matter roads took me to them.

Nonetheless, I might open my dashboard from time to time and suppose, “what am I even doing? Is there a degree to any of this anymore?”  Questions that many people are asking as of late, and ones that take sharper kind as a result of the bodily alternative prices of working are so nice for me.

I like writing, and my thoughts misses writing. Penning this publish in morning increments felt like coming house. My physique, although, it doesn’t a lot like me writing. My leak signs worsen after I do and whereas I’ve tried artistic options like voice to textual content or transcription, they don’t scratch the writing itch. I like the typing itself, the act of phrases falling out of my mind and rearranging themselves into prose.

So I made a decision I’ll do one thing a bit extra drastic.

Killing my Darlings

So as to create a very good piece of writing, you usually must first cull these paragraphs or characters you are feeling hooked up to regardless that they not contribute critically to the entire. It’s good to “kill your darlings” to make a better-working piece.

For me, killing my darlings outcomes not from decorative prose however from the bodily limitations on my capability to work. Whereas my artistic time is limitless, the precise creating takes the type of bodily overhead I not have at my disposal. I’m divesting among the tasks I’ve clung to within the hopes that I’ll be capable of construct one thing thrilling for my neighborhood.

I’ve a half-finished writing course workbook, and a full define for a product for legal professionals who wish to change careers.

Neither can be doable within the subsequent very lengthy whereas with my limitations. However the purpose I needed to construct these merchandise was as a result of readers requested for them, and clearly had a necessity for them. So I’ve partnered with folks I belief to repair these ache factors since I can’t.

The way to Inform Higher Tales in a Digital World: My Storytelling Course

I deliberate to do a storytelling course, and I’ve a half-completed workbook and lots of signal ups from readers. I’ve tried to consider ways in which I can do that undertaking whereas leaking, as a result of I love to show storytelling. In the intervening time, I don’t suppose it’s doable to take action with out consuming into all my uptime.

So I’ve partnered with two folks I belief to supply two totally different programs; which one is perhaps finest for you is determined by your wants.

Storytelling Course with Lola Akinmade Åkerström

How can we craft and share these tales with others that may create empathy and reference to others? How can we cradle with care the duty of telling different folks’s tales? How do you hook, have interaction, intrigue, and maintain your readers all the best way to your closing message? How are you going to discover threads and narrative arcs to construction your story?

These are all questions Lola addresses in her complete course about storytelling.

The course is self-paced, and contains lectures, video modules, and many case research and examples as an example the teachings Lola teaches. Lola simply launched this course, and I contacted her to see if I might refer my readers her approach as a result of it’s an incredible various to what I deliberate to do.

Lola has supplied $50 off for Authorized Nomads readers should you let her know that’s the place you got here from for the course.

Running a blog Course with Mike Sowden

I’ve additionally referred a few of you to my pal Mike*, who has a course referred to as Interact! A Storytelling Course for Bloggers. Loads of readers aren’t bloggers and thus need a broader extra technical story instruction, which Lola can present. For individuals who are within the running a blog world, and/or don’t have the finances for a bigger course,Mike’s course is a good possibility.

His course is self-paced over 8 weeks, aimed toward instructing bloggers the right way to be a greater storyteller. It contains e-mail classes, audio classes, PDF guides (together with my fave, “How To Edit The S#!t Out Of Your Writing”), and 1:1 help from Mike.

He has supplied a $15 low cost for Authorized Nomads readers: enter the code donkeyballs2020 or use this hyperlink to buy.

*Mike additionally kindly edited this publish, and lots of others, for me. Mike is an effective set of eyes in your mind.

Leaving Regulation Behind with Casey Berman and Adam Ouellette

My Thrillable Hours collection exists to encourage legal professionals feeling deadened by their job choices to search out the braveness to suppose extra broadly. I created it to assist with concern, profession change, and life after legislation. Although I additionally had plans to make a course to assist legal professionals take a leap, I didn’t get to complete it.

Casey and Adam have, and so I’m partnering with them to repair the ache level a few of my readers have. They’ll assist legal professionals by way of the method of leaving the legislation, if that’s what they need, and assist them overcome the blocking beliefs and self-sabotage that may get in the best way. Additionally they present their college students with interview and résumé assist, in addition to help to permit legal professionals to hone in on what various profession is finest for them.

Mainly, if I can’t aid you I really feel that Adam and Casey can at Go away Regulation Behind.

The plan is to hopefully file a video interview with them, too, for Authorized Nomads readers.

The “Ask a Jodi” Podcast

Just a few years in the past, I purchased the area Ask a Jodi and thought I might do movies answering questions readers had about life and every little thing after. It was truly my sitting on the bottom to dig out a tripod from my drawer that led to my re-opening the leak in 2018.

I shelved the video thought because it was infeasible, and with the bodily pressure this 12 months’s posts about COVID-19 took on me, I made a decision that writing would wish to return second to one thing else.

I’ve lengthy mentioned I’d write if nobody had been studying. However sadly as I mentioned, my physique and writing don’t get on as nicely. So a brief (10-15 min) podcast is the place I netted out, particularly to reply the numerous questions I obtain from readers about resilience, grief, hope, and a lot extra.

This may take time for me to get off the bottom, as a result of I’ve discovered every little thing takes extra time if you’re sick. I stay up for sharing it, when it’s prepared.

In case you’ve obtained a query for me that you just’d like me to deal with in a podcast episode, I’ve made a Google Type right here so that you can ship it my approach.

Redesigning Authorized Nomads

This web site began on Blogger and moved to WordPress in 2010. It’s gone by way of fairly a number of resdesigns since 2008.

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It’s been a number of years, and this time the redesign will streamline present classes into a number of essential ones, and hyperlink out to the programs and assets I’ve listed above. I additionally wish to brighten up the colors and replace the images and ‘about’ web page to replicate the transitions I’ve gone by way of during the last years.

I’ll even be altering my slogan from “Telling Tales By way of Meals” to “Curious About The whole lot.” The brand new slogan higher displays my current, although it is also all the time who I’ve been.

Audio recordings for Accessibility

A few of my readers who’ve CSF leaks (spinal or cranial) or who’re chronically sick have requested if it might be doable to file posts in audio kind, particularly those about meditation and my leak journey. My purpose is to file these earlier than I begin the podcast, warming as much as audio for starters but additionally making it simpler to entry content material for the individuals who discover studying troublesome.

Publication Again Up and Operating

Hyperlinks I Cherished was a e-newsletter I began to share the attention-grabbing hyperlinks that I learn, together with these I shared on Twitter. I’ve had the e-newsletter disabled for the final 12 months and a half as a result of my ache ranges fluctuate sufficiently that I felt I couldn’t decide to placing it out each month as promised.

With the redesign and the podcast, I’m beginning it up once more. It would home a number of nice reads in addition to normal updates from my work, and podcast planning, and extra. You possibly can join right here.

Supporting Authorized Nomads

That is the query I get essentially the most from you all: “how can I help you?”

I really feel extremely fortunate to have an unbelievable, caring neighborhood. I say this usually, and can proceed to say so. Even throughout these bewildering occasions when nearly everybody’s actuality has turn out to be warped, you continue to attain out to make sure that I’m holding up okay.

As with final 12 months, the simplest help is by way of an Amazon present card to, which is the place I get among the harder-to-find objects that aren’t obtainable on the grocery retailer. With COVID-19, my neighbours/household/buddies have helped with groceries, and ordering from Amazon means folks don’t should go looking for tiger nut flour.

There’s additionally my Patreon, which I launched primarily based in your request! I like the intimate neighborhood there.

Truthfully, there isn’t a lot else in the meanwhile! Assist the podcast when it launches, and share my work if it resonates. The care I would like day-to-day is essentially the most urgent, and fortunately I’ve household (and now neighbours and buddies!) to assist with grocery runs in the course of the pandemic, and who drop by for socially distanced visits whereas it’s nonetheless heat.


My pal Cheryl, who I’ve featured right here, says her life mantra is LSAT. That she’s a former lawyer makes this humorous, because it’s not the LSAT of our nightmares. Her LSAT means love, give up, acceptance, and belief.

Rather a lot tougher to embody than concern and anger and loathing.

Rather a lot simpler to say than do.

And but, a worthy use of psychological time and power.

Each second you’re not in a state of give up, you’re in a state of lack.

That’s what will get me by way of every day.

Jodi Ettenberg Legal nomads
A February Florida soup journey. Definitely worth the ache!

Effectively, that and soup.




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